I'm not being defiant, Mom... I'm practicing assertiveness!
I'm Bob Karson with "The Discovery Files" -- new advances in science and engineering from the National Science Foundation.
If you're over two-and-a-half years old, that "practicing assertiveness" excuse probably won't fly. But it may actually be valid for the 'diaper and drool' set. (SOUND: baby cooing) Researchers from the Universities of Texas and Michigan wanted to know more about the parent-child battle for control during an age often called, "the terrible twos." So, they amassed 119 of the adorable curtain-climbers, along with their moms, to see just how compliant or defiant each child was.
(SOUND: babies giggling and playing with toys)
The moms were asked to have their children comply with certain requests dealing with toys placed in the room. The child might be asked to avoid certain toys or clean up some toys. The researchers were interested in the child's reactions. Some of their findings indicate that traits of the mom, such as sensitivity, depression, or involvement, affected the child's actions.
The researchers note that defiance in children at these early ages could be a positive thing... it may reflect their emerging individuality, and confidence that they can control events in their world.
So the next time you're exasperated by a 'toddler with a 'tude,' (SOUND: cartoon music) remember, they might just be practicing to be a well-balanced big person.
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